Three Questions That Shape a Man's Self-Esteem
Who am I? What do I do? How much do I earn? Until a man has answered these three, he'll stay inside his own struggle — and that's about him, not about you.
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50 Days of Writing Every Day
Fifty days of writing daily: why text is a deeper way to talk to a reader than video, and why I am teaching myself to simply show up at the gym first.
How to Develop Discipline?
Discipline works like a muscle: even one small action in the morning switches the whole thing on. And the more disciplined you are, the more freedom you get.
Only What Turns Into a Cycle Has Power
A decision without a system almost always fizzles out. How to weave an important task into a rhythm of regular actions so the effect starts to compound.
How Do You Become the Author of Your Life?
A person lives life in one of three positions: author, victim or observer. Here's how they differ and what being the author of my own life means to me.
How Do I Set My Goals for the Next Year?
Five principles that help me set and reach my goals: keep them realistic, keep them big, balance the areas of life, review weekly, and pick one main direction.
How Does Achieving Goals Make Us Happy?
Goals come in two kinds: ours and imposed. An imposed one runs on willpower; a real one gives you energy at the mere thought of it — and that's what brings happiness.
Changing Your Handwriting Is the Hard Part
Setting new goals is easy. Changing your lifestyle and habits is not. Here are the three things that have to shift, and the four questions I ask of every goal.
How to Set and Achieve Goals?
When missiles fly and air raid sirens go off three times a day, planning feels naive. But if we don't plan our own lives, someone else will plan them for us.