Looking for Novelty in Sex
One of the main reasons people cheat is the search for novelty. But everything they look for elsewhere can be built inside their own marriage, if even part of that effort goes there.
Relationships
Solving Family Problems Through the Dark Side of the Spiritual World
People come to me trying to fix their family problems with astrology, tarot and Vedic practices. Here's why, as a Christian, my view of this is strongly negative.
Nastya Has Been Away Studying for a Week
A week without my wife, and I'm thinking again about why long-distance relationships are so hard to keep alive — and what my client work says about it.
Do What You Did at the Beginning of the Relationship
"Do what you did at the beginning and the relationship will never end." Why feelings don't cool on their own, and how they can grow stronger with years.
Assembling Shelves With My Father at the Office
An hour of four-handed work with my dad was a reminder of something simple: parents are not forever, and no amount of money buys that time back.
For a Woman, Emotions Are Air
Men tell me they have no time for romantic gestures. Yet three or four hours for an argument always turn up. On attention and openness as the base of a happy family.
Starting a New Relationship Before Ending the Old One Is Foolish
People decide to divorce and already consider themselves free. Why a relationship started while you're still legally married to someone else is doomed.
The Idea Pride Won't Let You Accept
One idea keeps millions of people from building a happy relationship, and pride is what blocks it: if my relationship isn't happy, I'm doing something wrong too.
The Biggest Mistake Men Make
Many men assume that if she hasn't left yet, she never will. That's a dangerous illusion — patience accumulates, and one day it simply runs out.