How to stay happy no matter what…
Happiness depends on where our attention is focused. A metaphor: an apartment block with no power, and one flat with solar panels.
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Reason number one — pride
Pride and being closed off is the main reason relationships fall apart. Why wearing the crown of an 'expert' at home only gets in the way.
The story of my betrayal
As a schoolboy I took our cat and her kittens to a village far from home. I have never had a pet since. On how childhood wounds work in adult life.
I struggle to fix my routine
I know I should be in bed by midnight, yet I sit on YouTube until 2 or 3 a.m. On the evening boundary for sleep and how the mind tops up its dopamine.
The mistake that often leads to divorce
Relationships come in three stages: healthy, ill, and intensive care. The biggest mistake is not knowing which one you are actually in right now.
How to Save a Relationship When You're Emotionally Burned Out
Even if you're exhausted and don't believe a better outcome is possible, you can still create one. The first step is getting your own inner resources back.
When to Start a Family
Many young men wait until they're "on their feet" before entering a relationship. I believe a family should be started when the feelings are real, not when the finances are perfect.
Don't Make Decisions for Other People
When we decide for a husband, a wife or a client, we take away their freedom of choice. In the family and in business alike, it works against us.
Why Divorce Makes No Sense in 99% of Cases
Nobody is surprised when a driver who never took a lesson keeps crashing. So why do we expect a happy family without spending a single hour learning how relationships work?