The World Is Full of Asymmetries
A simple exercise once a quarter: write out the key areas of your life and score each from 1 to 10. The imbalance and the room to grow become obvious.
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3 New Decisions for the Next 90 Days
New results require new actions. On which of the two kinds of "hard" we choose, and what decisions are worth making for the next three months.
May 2024 Results Across 7 Areas
A month with no new books, A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood, my first chatbots, day 192 of the writing marathon, and the insight that price sets the result.
If a Man Had Many Women Before You?
Women often say they're glad their man "got it out of his system" before them. Here's the practical reason that memory of past partners works against a couple.
What to Do When You've Drifted Apart
Routine pushes feelings aside and a couple slowly turns into flatmates. On the habits that bring warmth and closeness back into a relationship.
The Urge to Do People Good
The rescuer syndrome destroys closeness: the moment we step into someone else's boundaries, they start to resist. On help nobody asked for.
What If Something Happens to Her Man?
"But what if he loses his income or you split up?" My answer to the main argument against a woman carrying no financial responsibility.
It's Shameful to Be a Kept Woman
Women tell me that asking their husband for money feels humiliating. Why providing for the family is a man's natural role, not a favour to his wife.
Why People Can't Fix Their Relationship
Knowledge about relationships is available to everyone now, but habits are not. Why couples understand what to do and still live the old way.