How does having a child affect a relationship?
My recent posts drew hundreds of comments saying "it's easy for you, you don't have kids yet". So I'm asking the people who already do.
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The more time you spend at home, the harder it gets
I tried working from home for a day instead of the office and the day turned out sluggish and lazy. Why the fridge and the sofa kill productivity.
He will never change!
"He will never change" is a line I hear often in consultations. Here's why our own thinking becomes the glass ceiling of our marriage.
Female self-deception
We always choose people similar to ourselves. Why "I just ended up with an egotist" is a convenient illusion that blocks a good relationship.
The principle 80% of women ignore
Why do some men protect and provide while others shut down? Using my own marriage as an example, I explain the principle most women overlook.
Don't Split Work Into Men's and Women's
Dividing housework into "men's" and "women's" tasks damages a relationship. How Nastya and I split things up, and why your wife's free time pays off for you.
What Is Female Freedom From Responsibility?
Yesterday's claim sparked arguments, so here is a fuller explanation of why the 50/50 model burns out the emotional bond between a man and a woman.
A Woman's Happiness Lies in Freedom From Responsibility
Several times I talked my wife out of taking a job to earn on par with me, and I don't regret it. Why financial pressure on a woman wrecks a marriage.
Loyal Followers Help
A post with no insights or useful ideas — just thank you. You helped us pick a name for our new course, and your attention is what lets us keep working.