Right Steps = More Options
It is very easy to live inside the illusion of growth. My main indicator is simple: are my options in life widening or narrowing?
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We Give Weight to the Words We Hear
We decide what matters in our own life. The same sharp remark can become a burden for years — or be forgotten in fifteen minutes.
Taking Pauses Along the Way
For three weeks now I've set aside one day in seven to do nothing productive at all. My weekday output went up and the thoughts about burnout went quiet.
150 Days of Writing on Social Media Every Day
Only the things you can turn into a cycle have real power. What changes in your head and in your writing when you publish something every single day.
What Femininity Is
Friend, helper and lover — the three roles where femininity matters most. Plus the dozens of small things my wife Nastya does every single day.
Femininity and Masculinity
The principle works both ways, and it doesn't matter who starts. The moment one person in a marriage starts doing the right things, the other eventually follows.
So Many People Living Apart
One partner in Europe, the other away earning money — and within months the marriage is coming apart. My answer to «how do you save a long-distance relationship» is very short.
Please DON'T Forward My Content to Your Man
Women forward my videos to their husbands and are surprised the men aren't thrilled. A bit of irony about why someone else's videos never change anyone.
What Separates a Professional From an Amateur
Beyond command of the subject, three things give a professional away: they speak in probabilities, they can hear an opponent, and they put the work above personal likes.